Fluid Bonding

Welcome to Day 15 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery.

Read 2019’s Day 15 post here: “Getting Freaky Naughty”

[NOTE: the following is an account of my own personal experiences with barrier free sex within very particular dynamics that I feel are safe, honest, and communicative. I am NOT advocating for people to just stop using protection with any partners that they have not had very thorough, thoughtful, and informed discussions with. I strongly advise everyone to employ safe sex practices, be open with their partners about their sexual history, and get tested regularly for everyone’s sexual health and wellness.]

What is fluid bonding, you ask?

Fluid bonding refers to a mutually agreed upon decision between partners to stop using barrier protection (such as condoms, dental dams, gloves, etc.) during intercourse to allow for the exchange of bodily fluids (such as semen, saliva, ejaculate, etc.)

Once upon a time I used to thing that in order to be fluid bonded, you had to specifically have unprotected penetrative sex. It hadn’t occurred me that not wearing a condom while getting a blowjob, or giving oral sex to others without using barriers, was also fluid bonding because saliva, cum, and ejaculate are still mixing with your bodily fluids during those acts. Of course now I realize that fluid bonding includes much more varied acts and as such I’m TECHNICALLY bonded with several people, including my anchor partner, Fal, satellite partner, Rowan, and play partners/friends Emily, Jacob, and Bianca.

But the only people I have had unprotected penetrative sex with over the last few years are my anchor partner, Fal, and my former partner, Kate (who I haven’t had any sexual contact with for months now). But that all changed last month when Rowan came to visit Fal and I for their birthday!

Let me tell you, it was fucking amazing.

There’s just something so fucking hot about cumming inside some of my partners, especially if I get to eat it out of them afterward! And don’t even get me started on my impregnation and breeding fantasies.

 

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