Like with every other period of personal change, I tend to enter into pretty extensive self-reflective mode for a while after emotional upheaval occurs and a huge part of that often includes thinking about my sexual, emotional, romantic, and relationship needs and wants. In the past that’s led to me contemplating major moves (be it…
Tag: polyamory
Just Sucking Some Real Great Dick
That’s it, really. That’s the post. Just some pics of me sucking some real great dick, taken by my partner Fenric as xe watched me. This was actually part of the same weekend I hung out naked eating chicken nuggets with friends, got spanked with a King James bible, and later came on the steering…
Coping When Multiple Polyamory Breakups Happen
Look, overall polyamory is really great. It allows for unique, enriching, and deeply fulfilling relationships to exist that may not in most traditional ways, and provides one with the opportunity to have their emotional and sexual needs met without putting all of those fulfillment needs on a single person. I love it and it’s honestly…
Birthdays Are Hard and I’m Not Celebrating Mine Next Year
At least not in any formal or traditional way. Birthdays are just really fucking hard, y’all! Over the last few years, every single time July swings around I find myself starting to feel more and more anxious, often verging onto panic, and time has continuously shown it to be for good reason. In 2020, we…
I’m a Switchy Bitch; What BDSM and Being Kinky Means to Me
So… sex has been a little weird for me lately. Most of that is thanks to stress and trauma, and some lingering insecurity issues, but I’ve also been coming to some pretty big truths about myself in terms of my needs, wants, desires, and boundaries. Namely, in how I wasn’t really centring any of that…