Generally speaking boundaries come in two core forms for me: those that guide me, but are open to growth and adjustment along my journey, and those which are absolutely essential exactly as they are, their existence being crucial to my feeling emotionally, physically, psychologically, and possibly even financially, safe. Those latter ones are your non-negotiables,…
Category: Polyamory
How My Relationship Needs Have Evolved Over the Pandemic
I’ve been thinking an awful lot about my needs and wants when it comes to relationships lately. In early 2021, shortly after the big parts of the pandemic lockdown were starting to lift, I was in a pretty chaotic state of being. Following months of emotional turmoil, gaslighting, arguments, manipulation, intimidation, and yelling, all culminating…
I’m Not Okay: Fear and Self-Loathing in 2023
CW: discussion of abuse, SA, severe mental health struggles, depression, negative self-talk, etc. Okay, I think it’s time to talk about my insecurities and anxieties more because I feel like they’re at an all-time high. Or low? I dunno, whichever. Basically, I feel like shit about myself and just, like, not confident at all. I…
An InCUDDLEble Night
Welcome to Day 26 of February Photofest 2023, a month long lewd photo event organized by Molly Moore of Molly’s Daily Kiss! Yesterday was quite possibly one of the most affirming nights I’ve had in a long time. It genuinely could not have come at a better time too. I’ve been struggling really badly with…
Crushing on a Hot Couple
Have you ever had a crush or squish on a couple? While I’ve always theoretically got the concept of being attracted to a couple, because I’ve certainly swooned over fictional characters and their partners in my favourite series and shows, it wasn’t really anything that I could relate to in my day to day life……