While I’ve thought a LOT about my sexual orientation and gender over the years, romantic orientation was never really something I actually put much thought or consideration into as a part of my identity until recently. For most of my life I just assumed that everybody ultimately wanted a romantic relationships with romantic partners and…
Dear Sarah, I know that this year has been really hard, like really shit, and that you’ve been missing your friends and lovers a lot. We’ve missed you too! Like SO fucking much! I have legit found it extremely hard not being able to see you at all for nearly a year now and I…
Holy fuck do I miss my cuddle pals, friendships with benefits, casual orgasms with buddies, and sex parties, y’all… It doesn’t help that this time last year I had just come back from a Christmas orgy with a bunch of cute queers and I was well on my way to planning a full-blown goddess worship…
You know, I’ve never really fully appreciated how lucky I am to have the ability to remember my dreams so vividly, but every so often I have a sex dream so fucking hot that I end up telling somebody about and they are always surprised about the level of detail I can recall. Most recently…
You know what I miss the most right now? Non-monogamy. Because non-monogamy in the pandemic obviously looks a lot more different than it did before all of this. I’m definitely feeling real fucking down about not being able to see any of my play friends or cuddle pals for half-a-year now. I mean, I’m still…