Confession: I fucking love Tinder. My kitten does too and we’re actually on it a lot together, though not for the reasons you might think. We’re not looking for a third, we’re not unicorn hunters – though group sex is always on the table with those who are interested – we’re not even looking for…
Not too long ago I wrote about how I experienced “love” as an aromantic queer, and as part of the discussion that arose with friends and peers afterward I was often asked about whether or not I had ever had a crush on somebody or not. And like, yeah, just not in the way that…
While I’ve thought a LOT about my sexual orientation and gender over the years, romantic orientation was never really something I actually put much thought or consideration into as a part of my identity until recently. For most of my life I just assumed that everybody ultimately wanted a romantic relationships with romantic partners and…
Dear Sarah, I know that this year has been really hard, like really shit, and that you’ve been missing your friends and lovers a lot. We’ve missed you too! Like SO fucking much! I have legit found it extremely hard not being able to see you at all for nearly a year now and I…
Holy fuck do I miss my cuddle pals, friendships with benefits, casual orgasms with buddies, and sex parties, y’all… It doesn’t help that this time last year I had just come back from a Christmas orgy with a bunch of cute queers and I was well on my way to planning a full-blown goddess worship…