Nobody said this was gonna be easy, but I didn’t think that it would be this hard either. I’m on a bunch of dating apps, matching with people here and there, but they’re all widely dead ends. Missed connections, conflicting schedules, drops in conversation, a lack of energy on both sides, it’s all contributed to…
Tag: mental health
When Polyamory and Non-monogamy Gets Hard; Unpacking Big Feelings and Re-Centring Yourself
Content note: mention of sexual assault. For the last decade I’ve been polyamorous and in non-monogamous relationships. Overall I can confidently say that I’ve felt pretty good about it, and it’s had a positive impact on my life. I’ve met some really amazing people and had a lot of profoundly memorable experiences with them. It…
Uninspired
I’ve been having a lot of trouble keeping up with writing on the blog lately and it’s been bumming me out a little. Not that this is super uncommon. My motivation and excitement can kind of come and go in waves depending on what else is going on in my life, but January is usually…
Soft Cock
Just some soft cock from a soft boi with big emotions and fears who just wants to feel happy, confident, and comfortable in themself again. Also, soft cock is good cock and deserves more appreciation!
Existential Dread, Dating, and Finding New Connections as a Millennial Trans Queer
Turning 37 has come with a lot more big feelings than I’d thought it would. I mean, what even is 37? I hadn’t even considered that this was an age I could be until it was here. It’s not turning 40, entering that part of existence considered your “mid-life”. It’s not even turning 35, when…