[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images] While I left off my last lewds post in good spirits, it’s been another rough couple of weeks and I’m honestly feeling really down again. Why? Because for the third fucking time this year Fal and I had to have our fucking apartment sprayed for bed bugs. When…
Tag: mental health
Finding My Sexy When Self-Care Goes South
[CW: sexual explicit photos and discussion of trauma and abuse.] It’s always hard coming out the other side of a severe depression spiral. Especially when you weren’t even aware you were in one until a debilitating, 3-day long anxiety attack and its after-effects hit you right in the fucking gut. So, that’s been my week….
4 Reasons Why I Love Sharing Nudes With My Friends
CW: A picture of girl cock. Friends are the fucking best! They lift you up when you’re feeling down, are always there when you need company, understand when you want to be left the fuck alone, often have front row seats to all of your ups and downs, and are the first to like your…
I Was Sexually Assaulted At My First Ever LGBT Event
CW: description of sexual assault, self-harm, alcoholism, etc. It has been a pretty fucked up month. Not only have revelations of Harvey Weinstein’s predatory sexual assaults of, and harassment toward, numerous industry women throughout his career come to light but recent discussion across social media about the prevalence of sexual assault in our society has…
The Ups and Downs of Queer Sex Blogging
[CW: post contains nudes] It has taken a lot of big highs and fucking awful lows for me to get this blog to where it is at today. For those who have been following my writing/blogging from back in late 2011 when I started writing about flat track roller derby at Derby Frontier, through the…




