[CW: this post contains sexually explicit, NSFW art] I get it. We’re all trying to survive in a world that generally irrationally hates and fears everything that isn’t white, cisgender, heterosexual, and male. But I feel that it’s important not to invalidate or denigrate other vulnerable groups by playing into the ignorance of the majority…
Tag: non-binary
My Favorite Sexy Selfies and NSFW Pics of 2016!
Putting this quick post together because I was feeling inspired by the positive self-talk on display in Kate Sloan’s “7 Bangin’ Selfies” post; as part of her annual 12 Days of Girly Juice feature. This year was pretty revolutionary for me in terms of becoming more body positive and sex positive toward myself, especially considering…
How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Non-Binary Queer Folk
One of the single biggest questions that has been on my mind ever since I came to understand myself as queer and genderqueer is: how the hell do I sexy!? Seriously. What IS “sexy” for non-binary and genderqueer folk? Can we even be sexy, or is that only for peeps who identify within the binary?…
Some Feels on Weight Gain, Dysphoria, and Passing Pressure
[CW: one NSFW image and talk of dysphoria, depression, and thoughts of self-harm] After coming out as queer and trans in late 2013, following years of struggling with my identity in secret, I was in the best shape of my adult life. Just over two-years prior I was at 225 lbs, chain smoking, binge eating…
Bathrooms and Being Non-Binary
Here I am on an average Monday. My hair is all messy, pulled back into pigtails, and I have visible stubble on my face because I haven’t shaved for 2-days. I am well aware that I do not “pass”. Even I acknowledge that while I am quite femme in how I dress, I by no…