Moments like reaching into your purse and finding your date friend’s bra is still in there from a few days prior when she handed it to you after taking it off outside so that you could play with her breasts better during a late night hookup in a park.
Those sort of moments!
I’m really fortunate in that my life is filled with them, yet I don’t normally commemorate them like this. Planning on changing that more though going forward! Especially since Kate is planning to move away for school within the next year or so here. And while I’m super excited for her, and know that I’ll still have opportunities to go out and visit her, I’m also pretty sad about it.
In a lot of ways I feel like between the pandemic, and some previous life complications, we were robbed of a lot of time where we could have been having the best of times as aromantic besties with benefits. While we definitely still have time for that now, I worry that it’ll feel like it goes by too fast. I’m gonna miss her a lot when she moves.
But hey! That’s why these little moments are so much more important and worth documenting.
So, here’s to the first of many now that we’re both double vaccinated and away from the challenging situations that kept us from our queerplatonic potential!
I’m loving myself this August! Check out others who are doing the same by clicking the mirror below!
