2018 has kinda been balls, y’all. Between seeing a stark rise in violent white supremacy, culturally centric hate speech, the reversal of civil rights, targeted murders of vulnerable minorities, the rise of full blown fascism in the Americas, a massive boom in transphobia worldwide and tons of other depressing and terrifying shit, it’s been hard…
Tag: polyamory
Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…
Taking Care of Myself In More Ways Than One
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images] While I left off my last lewds post in good spirits, it’s been another rough couple of weeks and I’m honestly feeling really down again. Why? Because for the third fucking time this year Fal and I had to have our fucking apartment sprayed for bed bugs. When…


