It’s the time of year when I get pretty self-reflective and that means looking back to the days when I wasn’t out as queer or trans. Now, I stayed in the closet for a LONG time. Way too long. Over 25-years too long, if I’m being completely honest with myself. But even though most of…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
4 Reasons Why I Love Sharing Nudes With My Friends
CW: A picture of girl cock. Friends are the fucking best! They lift you up when you’re feeling down, are always there when you need company, understand when you want to be left the fuck alone, often have front row seats to all of your ups and downs, and are the first to like your…
The Importance of Feeling Safe
Holy shit, y’all! For the first time in 4-years, my partner, Falon, and I have gone a FULL MONTH [that’s over 4-weeks] without experiencing any form of transphobic or queerphobic street harassment of any kind. It is fucking glorious! For those of you who have been reading the blog for a while, you may have…
I Was Sexually Assaulted At My First Ever LGBT Event
CW: description of sexual assault, self-harm, alcoholism, etc. It has been a pretty fucked up month. Not only have revelations of Harvey Weinstein’s predatory sexual assaults of, and harassment toward, numerous industry women throughout his career come to light but recent discussion across social media about the prevalence of sexual assault in our society has…
The Ups and Downs of Queer Sex Blogging
[CW: post contains nudes] It has taken a lot of big highs and fucking awful lows for me to get this blog to where it is at today. For those who have been following my writing/blogging from back in late 2011 when I started writing about flat track roller derby at Derby Frontier, through the…