Hey folks, got some pretty fucking exciting news for y’all! About a year ago I was approached by the ever amazing Sinclair Sexsmith who wanted to include one of my favorite queer erotica stories that I’ve ever written in an anthology collection from Cleis Press called Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4. Now,…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
Lingerie My Way
I’ve always had a really rough relationship with underwear and other forms of lingerie. When I came out as queer and trans in late 2013 I almost immediately found myself swept up into all of these expectations for my transition to center clear, and hyper-feminization. It was as if as soon as I announced I…
Tired and Sad
There’s been a couple of occasions when I’ve talked about my anxiety, my trauma, and feeling depressed, but I don’t think I’ve ever really talked about it outside of just saying “yeah, I feel like shit”. Right now I’m really in the thick of it and it fucking sucks because there’s actually no discernible reason…
Unpacking My Anxieties & Shame About Anal
So here’s the deal: in all my messy cum eating, ethical public threesome having, hardcore furry porn reading, and honeydew melon fucking kinkiness one thing that I STILL have a lot of weird fucking hangups about is anal sex. But not anal sex in general, just anal sex as in me being on the receiving…
How I Like to Be Complimented on My Blog
Earlier this month I made a post about how I physically like to be touched with comfort and pleasure in mind, through highlighting all my sensual spots, and it got me thinking about a bunch of stuff that I don’t usually communicate to my partners, lovers, or friends. For example; one thing that I don’t…




