Last week was a fucking rough time for body feels. For whatever reason I had slowly gotten it in my head over the past few months that I was fat and hairy and that my partners and lovers couldn’t possibly actually want to have sex with me. It was such an insidious and harmful narrative,…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
What My Vasectomy Was Like
Huzzah! I did it! Getting my vasectomy has been literally years in the making, and the procedure went off without a hitch! Early last month I did a great deal of self-reflection on my life, focusing specifically on what brings me joy and fulfillment, and I came to one absolute conclusion: I fucking love the…
5 Thing I’ve Learned About Myself That are Essential to My Happiness
Those that know me well know that I’m a deeply self-reflective person who, perhaps a bit obsessively, looks inward a great deal when making any conceivably big life decision, or if I just find myself feeling a lot in general. This was especially the case over the last year as I navigated becoming separated from…
Writing Out Loud: I’m Separated
I’ve put off talking about my separation for a lot of reasons I think. I mean, it just fucking sucks, right? A relationship ending, especially a long-term one, isn’t a great experience at the best of times but throw in the fact that there were also massive boundary breaches along the way, a tremendous breakdown…
My First Night on Grindr As an Enby
Okay, so, first things first: going on hookup apps as a nonbinary person fucking sucks. It just does, okay? If you’re not getting creepily fetishized and love bombed by randos then you’re getting misgendered and told you’re not real, a joke, confused, or “just wanting attention”, etc. It’s kinda a huge fucking buzzkill. Yet, I…




