As a very introspective and self-reflective person I tend to spend a lot of time musing on my relationships and friendships, as well as the needs, wants, boundaries, desires, and expectations that frame them. So, when I saw Molly Moore‘s recent post “Bucket, Fuck and Christmas Lists” It actually reminded me of how I used…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
My First Hookup Fuck-up
Everyone’s got at least one bad hook-up story. Even I do! Kinda sucks though that mine happened to be one of the first times that I ever hooked up with somebody else. Let’s set the scene: it’s the summer of 2002, people haven’t figure out that Men In Black II sucks yet, The Sims is…
Moving On When You Can’t Stop Holding On
I’m grieving, friends. And that’s a good thing because if I’m being honest here I haven’t really allowed myself to do that these past few weeks since Kate ended the polyamorous triad. I think that part of the difficulty is that we’re not treating it as a traditional breakup so much as a transition from…
Celebrating the Release of Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4
Hey folks, got some pretty fucking exciting news for y’all! About a year ago I was approached by the ever amazing Sinclair Sexsmith who wanted to include one of my favorite queer erotica stories that I’ve ever written in an anthology collection from Cleis Press called Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 4. Now,…
Lingerie My Way
I’ve always had a really rough relationship with underwear and other forms of lingerie. When I came out as queer and trans in late 2013 I almost immediately found myself swept up into all of these expectations for my transition to center clear, and hyper-feminization. It was as if as soon as I announced I…