Kate, Fal, and I are no longer in a polyamorous triad; and now we have to learn to be friends again. I should clarify though that while the three of us aren’t in that particular relationship structure anymore, Fal and I are still very much so partners, and Kate is still an extremely important part…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
Lingerie My Way
I’ve always had a really rough relationship with underwear and other forms of lingerie. When I came out as queer and trans in late 2013 I almost immediately found myself swept up into all of these expectations for my transition to center clear, and hyper-feminization. It was as if as soon as I announced I…
Tired and Sad
There’s been a couple of occasions when I’ve talked about my anxiety, my trauma, and feeling depressed, but I don’t think I’ve ever really talked about it outside of just saying “yeah, I feel like shit”. Right now I’m really in the thick of it and it fucking sucks because there’s actually no discernible reason…
Unpacking My Anxieties & Shame About Anal
So here’s the deal: in all my messy cum eating, ethical public threesome having, hardcore furry porn reading, and honeydew melon fucking kinkiness one thing that I STILL have a lot of weird fucking hangups about is anal sex. But not anal sex in general, just anal sex as in me being on the receiving…
How I Like to Be Complimented on My Blog
Earlier this month I made a post about how I physically like to be touched with comfort and pleasure in mind, through highlighting all my sensual spots, and it got me thinking about a bunch of stuff that I don’t usually communicate to my partners, lovers, or friends. For example; one thing that I don’t…