I used to avoid any and all pools and beaches as much as I possibly could because I’ve never felt comfortable with my body, or with any of the bathing suits I ever owned. For some reason I’ve always felt more vulnerable in a bathing suit than I ever have in any lingerie or even…
Category: Let’s Get Personal!
I’m Not Strong and Here’s Why It’s Transphobic to Assume That I Am
And by me being not strong, I mean physically. When it comes to my emotional intelligence, my perseverance in the face of seeming insurmountable queerphobia, and my ability to face great adversity in my pursuit of bettering myself and my community, I’m a fucking beast, yo. But those aren’t the strengths I’m expected to have….
What Comes After
Woo! Guess what y’all!? This slut’s officially got their first vaccination shot and I’m so fucking excited to, hopefully, start seeing my partners, friends, lovers, and community more over the coming months. I even drove an hour-and-a-half to North Battleford in order to get mine, and it was so fucking worth it. Here’s hoping the…
The Aftershocks of Toxic Masculinity
So, I recently blogged about impotence and sexual dysfunction, and while I’m really happy with how the piece turned out overall I did want to explore it on a more personal level than that last write up really allowed for. Because impotence and performance anxiety struggles, for me at least, are really complicated things deeply…
Impotence – When Getting Hard Gets Hard
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