CN: mention of alcohol abuse, mental health struggles My nesting partner, Falon, and I moved not too long ago, and in that process I came across something that walloped me right in the fucking feels: my old iPod. On it was all of the music that I listened to throughout my late teens, and well…
Category: Queer & Trans
5 Reasons Why Sexting Kicks Ass
Hey folks, know what’s great? Sexting. Seriously, I know it gets a bad rap from your ultra-conservative aunt, Chrissy, but you know what? Too bad for her. There are tons of perks to this criminally underrated pass-time. Here’s 5 of them! 1. It’s Outstanding Foreplay Before my nesting partner, Fal, and I first had…
5 Queer & Trans Inclusive Sex Acts to Enjoy During a Threesome
[CW: a glimpse of girl cock] I don’t know about you but I personally find that almost everything out there written on group sex of any kind is, like, aggressively gendered, cisnormative, and heteronormative. Even when resources try to be as inclusive as they can… they just aren’t. That’s why page after page, search result…
7 Queer Names for Trans and Non-Binary Folks to Call Their Genitals
One of the most essential parts of reclaiming autonomy over myself as a queer androbabe has been taking back the language used to describe my body. Everything that had previously applied, obviously, no longer felt right and the binary alternatives for cis fem genitalia weren’t appropriate either because they described parts that I neither had,…
4 Tips To Manage Jealousy and Insecurity in Queer Non-Monogamy
I know that my partner loves me very much. I know from how they cuddle up to me every night as I fall asleep. I know from how they tenderly kiss me awake every morning. I know from how they help me pick out clothes on days that I feel particularly dysphoric. I know from…




