[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…
Category: Queer & Trans
Talking Enby Visibility and Queer Inclusivity in Porn with Mx Praxis Phanes
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: queer, trans, GNC, and enby positive representation in porn fucking matters! Even moreso in 2018 as we find ourselves in socially regressive times with queerphobia, sexphobia, and sexual harassment/assault rearing it’s ugly head in reinvigorated ways across every arena from politics to entertainment, and beyond. Just…
How Do I Sexy? Workshop Companion
Thank you for attending “How Do I Sexy?: A Sexuality Affirming Workshop for Queer, Trans, and Enby Folks“, hosted by OUTSaskatoon and Gender RevolutionĀ as part of YXE Trans Visibility Week 2018. Here you will find all of the articles and resources we discussed together, separated by topic: Self-Care & Queer Body Positivity Below is…
How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits
Once upon at time, I was completely convinced that in order to feel happy, safe, and fulfilled in my life after coming out as queer and trans, I had to strive to pass as a “woman”. Not only that, but I also had to feel uncomfortable with, or outright hate, my body. I mean, if…
Survival Guide to Shopping for Femme Clothes When You’re Read as Masculine
CW: this post contains descriptions of queerphobic harassment and abuseĀ I am a fat, stocky, non-cis-passing queer with a hot pink side-cut, hairy tits, and varying degrees of stubble on my face. Needless to say, clothes shopping for me can be a real shit-show. Fact is that no matter what store I go to, or…




