Just like in any abusive situation, it’s hard to see how bad things are until you see how good they can be. In a lot of ways, that’s how I felt as I began to understand my gender and sexuality, find the courage to come out, and reflect on my time spent in the closet….
Category: Queer & Trans
Crossdressing Link in Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild Is Sexy and You Know It!
If you play video games and read about video games then it’s pretty likely that you’ve already heard about “Gerudolink” [or “Gerudo Link”] by now. For those not in the know, here’s the run-down: Link, the main hero from the Legend of Zelda game series, crossdresses as a Gerudo (a warrior woman) during the latest…
A Case for Traps, Sissies, Femboys, and Crossdressers
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit, NSFW art] I get it. We’re all trying to survive in a world that generally irrationally hates and fears everything that isn’t white, cisgender, heterosexual, and male. But I feel that it’s important not to invalidate or denigrate other vulnerable groups by playing into the ignorance of the majority…
My Favorite Sexy Selfies and NSFW Pics of 2016!
Putting this quick post together because I was feeling inspired by the positive self-talk on display in Kate Sloan’s “7 Bangin’ Selfies” post; as part of her annual 12 Days of Girly Juice feature. This year was pretty revolutionary for me in terms of becoming more body positive and sex positive toward myself, especially considering…
How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Non-Binary Queer Folk
One of the single biggest questions that has been on my mind ever since I came to understand myself as queer and genderqueer is: how the hell do I sexy!? Seriously. What IS “sexy” for non-binary and genderqueer folk? Can we even be sexy, or is that only for peeps who identify within the binary?…




