You know, I almost didn’t participate in this Kink of the Week despite me having a huge cum fetish and this being one of my absolute favorite sexting activities when done with consent and consideration. Not only has it been a really rough week for a wide variety of personal reasons (more on that in a later post), but about mid-way through the meme the reactions to, and opinions of, this particular kink seemed to become rather divisive and I’d be lying if I didn’t say that kind of took the wind out of my sails a little.
Of course people have every right to not enjoy a kink or form of play for one reason or another but because I was really excited to share this one with everybody, especially as I’ve been struggling with shame feels about all of my kinks for well over a year now, I think I was slightly taken aback by it.
Oh well, it is what it is and I can still love this shit even if other’s don’t!
Luckily for me my good friend, and awesome fellow blogger, Quinn Rhodes of On Queer Street, also digs cum tributes and was totally on board for me tributing her! Yay!
Best part is that ze even hand picked the photo for me to use too, which is honestly always a nice touch because not only is the tribute consensual but now the tributee is actively involved by selecting the image of themself that they want to see covered in cum. And that shit is sexy and ethical as fuck, y’all!
I mean, this is exactly in line with what I’ve been saying this whole time: that cum tributes need to first-most, and foremost, center active consent and respect.
Quinn is somebody I consider a great friend, as well as a truly inspiring peer, and I feel supremely fortunate to have had the opportunity to sext and excitedly share nudes with hir on-and-off for a while now. So when I asked hir if I could do a cum tribute to hir for the Kink of the Week, and ze responded so excitedly, I was stoked!
While I’ve been masturbating to images of Quinn, both ones on hir blog and that ze’s sent me privately, and I’ve sent hir plenty of images of my messy cum shots from those times with hir encouragement and consent, I’ve never ejaculated on an actual picture of hirs… though the thought has been on my mind since I started doing the odd cum tribute this past spring.
Being able to finally do so was definitely fantasy fulfillment. Especially since I got to cum on hir ass, which is seriously incredible and something I’ve imagined doing in my mind countless times before.
I’ve always loved the almost artistic feeling way that every cum shot is so radically different, so unpredictable, never falling in the same way, or on the same spots. In that sense I feel each orgasmic mess, when enjoyed with a friend, can be supremely intimate and unique, and this tribute to Quinn is a monument to that sentiment.
I also want to take a quick moment here to thank all of you for reading the blog all of these years. Just a few days ago I celebrated 750,000 blog views since 2016, which feels both incredible and surreal!
Thank you all xoxo
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3 thoughts on “Cum Tribute to a Friend”
I am SO glad you did join in because without your original post on this topic it probably wouldn’t have ever been on Kink of the Week so I feel like you were the inspiration behind it and it has most definitely inspired a whole host of people to write about it which is brilliant. Sometimes that means some people are negative about it but I also look at that and think well at least it made them feel something enough to write and that is a good thing.
As for shame about kinks I can identify with those too, definitely when it comes to 3somes and wanting other people. That is a kink I have really struggled with for a long time and yet it is so supremely hot to me. I know having a partner who hated it had a really big impact on me and I trying to relearn to be OK with now that has changed
Whilst I have a bit (ok lot) of a cum fetish I’d only want to receive a tribute from someone I felt a close connection to. I can’t tell you how much I’d love my partner to send me one as a surprise.
It’s always intrigued me what people get out of sending dick or tribute pics, not in a judgemental way, I’m genuinely intrigued. I also understand there quite often isn’t reason, other than it’s hot!
Thanks for the prompt and getting me to think about something I’d not really considered before.
Totally agree on wanting to share in this kink only with people you feel comfortable with. For me, that net included partners, friends, and peers I interact with regularly, but it’s different for everybody.
Thank you so much for commenting, and for participating in the prompt yourself! It was very interesting reading your thoughts on it too. Also, the Polaroid tribute pic you shared was excellent <3