Every Orgy Needs a Mom

It finally happened, y’all! I was finally able to host and attend an orgy again, the first one that I’ve been able to go to since February of 2020, and it was a fucking doozy! This thing had fucking everything. There were upwards of 25 people there, everyone double vaxxed, excited, and thrilled to be sharing space again. We all gathered out at the mansion where everybody brought food, drink, and toys to share with one another.

We swam naked in the pool, chatted while nude under the stars in an outdoor hot-tub, and all relished in various degrees of exhibitionism and voyeurism alike. I got to do a small kink scene, watched a friend get fucked and filled with cum over and over again, observed a peer do some pain play with rope and pressure, observed a magnificent caning scene unfold into beautiful welts and bruises on my squish‘s butt, saw people sucking each other, fucking each other, licking each other, and cumming together in sweaty, wet, messy, piles of sex all around the mansion.

It was a truly glorious, shame free, uninhibited celebration of pleasure, bodies, kink, and best of all, friendship and community. Honestly, just thinking about it now makes me tear up for having seen so many people I haven’t been able to share space with in months all laughing, talking, cuddling, kissing, and enjoying both themselves and each another in the throws of passion. That shit straight up rejuvenated my soul.

Only struggle for me was that in all of the buildup to the event, once the thing finally started I uh… just, couldn’t really get a full erection for any sort of exhibitionist, centre of the orgy sex stuff. Like, I was still very aroused and very hard during several moments of the night. One highlight being as I made out with and sucked on the hard nipples of my aforementioned squish, who I hadn’t seen in over a year, while one of their partner fingered them to orgasm between us. But when it came to anything where all eyes were on me, or I felt like there was any expectation for me to perform or provide a certain type of sexual experience, I was immediately unable to get erect.

However, rather than getting down on myself or feeling insecure about it, I instead opted on something more proactive and fulfilling: I took on some of the duties of an orgy mom.

I first learned about the role of an orgy mom from my FWBs, Sarah, as it was something she took very seriously throughout the many clothing and sex optional parties that she hosted for the local polyam community between 2018 – 2020, prior to the lockdowns. As she explained it to me, an orgy mom is that person, or those persons, who may not be able to participate fully in the more sexual aspects of the night, but are still interested in being a part of things through supporting those engaging in play. An orgy mom is somebody who makes sure the condom bowl stays full, who brings bottles of water by, who helps clean up accidental spills, grab folks towels, maybe even checks in on any people who are sitting quietly off on their own to ensure they are feeling comfortable and safe as well.

Of course, an orgy “mom” can be an orgy “dad” or an orgy “parent” too. Plus there can certainly be more than one at a time too! The general idea being that your orgy events deserve to have folks around who support a clean, safe, accessible, and welcoming space.

So, while I felt a little too anxious myself to hop on into the sex piles I was more than happy to help wipe up the spills and grab things for those who were all up in there. I was even able to provide a degree of peer support to some folks in need of chatting through some social anxieties and post-pandemic intimacy mixed feels, which I was very glad I could help with.

Besides, the next morning, after everyone had had some breakfast and was chilling around socializing, I went downstairs to the playspace with my date friend Tallulah who gave me cuddles, makeouts, and a friendly handjob. So I still got my play in and I came SO fucking hard, all over myself, finally collapsing back in orgasmic bliss.

All in all, Project: Best Summer Ever! continues to be a massive success!

 

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