Welcome to Day 3 of February Photofest 2020 on mxnillin.com! Centering queer lewdness and hardcore genderfuckery.
Read 2019’s Day 3 post here: “Hard to Ignore“
Fun fact: it took me nearly 27 years to learn how to pleasure myself.
That’s not to say that I didn’t know how to masturbate or that I didn’t have any orgasms before then or that, because I definitely did and many of them were pretty fucking great. But there’s a huge difference between just getting off and really, truly experiencing pleasure.
One of the biggest parts of my coming out as queer and gender non-conforming has not only been figuring out what feeling sexy looks like for me, but also figuring out how to have pleasure in a body that I spent all of my formative years not understanding. I’ve had to unpack a lot shame feels, find new non-gendered ways of pleasuring myself, and learn to love my body regardless of what weight it’s at, but now I’m finally at a point where I know what I like and how to give it to myself whenever I want it.
And that feels pretty fucking good.
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I was 32 before I learned how to masturbate and orgasm (I’m 40 now), so I’m definitely a late-bloomer, but it’s amazing knowing my body and what gives me the most pleasure without a lot of the baggage I carried around for so long. Also, AMAZING image.
I’m so glad that you were able to discover that pleasure for yourself, and that you’ve discovered so much about your body in that process too! It’s SO much better now, right!? And thank you so much, glad you liked the pic too!
I like taking my cock out & masturbating get the head of cock a little wet it’s always a enjoy having my cock in my hand it’s nothing better than looking down at my cock
I’m glad that you’ve discovered how you most like to pleasure yourself as well!
I think it takes many of us an inordinate amount of time to really learn how to live in our skin and find pleasure without shame. Some people never manage to get past the outside world’s judgement (or their own). So kudos!
It is so great that you feel that you are finally at a place where you feel at ease with your body and can enjoy it in the best ways possible!
It really is! I got a bit of a late start but honestly, my 30s have been the most exciting, fulfilling, and happiest time of my life personally, emotionally, socially and most definitely socially
I agree that the words in this post are just as good as the image. Self-acceptance is not an easy feat and Iām happy to see that you have found it.
Yeah it definitely isn’t but oof, it is SO worth the work ā¤ Thank you for the kind words!
I love this post, not just for the photo but really for the words. I love that the voyage of self discovery you have been on has brought you to this point of pleasure. Great post.
Oh my … This image is quite a treat on a grey and dreary Monday morning!
Why thank you! š The treat is on me! š