I used to avoid any and all pools and beaches as much as I possibly could because I’ve never felt comfortable with my body, or with any of the bathing suits I ever owned. For some reason I’ve always felt more vulnerable in a bathing suit than I ever have in any lingerie or even…
Tag: mental health
My Queer Beard and How It’s Helping Me Re-Define My Gender
Look, I’m a fucking hairy queer. Always have been. My chest, legs, arms, belly, butt, all super hairy and for years that caused me a great deal of grief. Why? Unfortunately I had let passing pressure convince me that the only way for me to look, and be accepted, as trans was to constantly shave…
Impotence – When Getting Hard Gets Hard
DISCLAIMER: I am not a doctor. Please do not disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking professional medical help because of something you’ve read here. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding any medical condition. Everything in this piece, and on this…
It’s Been Hard
Hey folks, it’s been a while! I’m not really in a place where I feel comfortable getting into what’s been going on but there’s been a lot of big changes in my life over the last month and I’ve been in a pretty challenging and introspective place from them all. I know that vague-blogging is…
How Cisnormativity in Blogging is Alienating Your Trans Peers
Cisnormativity in blogging has always been a deeply alienating and invalidating issue that trans bloggers and readers have to regularly face. Perhaps one of those most prominent ways it manifests in these spaces is through the marketing of sex toys, and the reviews written about them. Just as it is a needlessly exclusionary marketing choice…




