Welcome to Day 14 of February Photofest 2019 on MxNillin.com People always look at me weird when I say that I’m in a long-term, complicated, polyamorous relationship with myself; but it’s true! I mean, generally speaking, I’ve shared more intimacy, romance, and vulnerability with myself than any other person on the planet and if this…
Tag: non-monogamy
4 Amazing Things That Happened to Me During this Pretty Shitty Year
2018 has kinda been balls, y’all. Between seeing a stark rise in violent white supremacy, culturally centric hate speech, the reversal of civil rights, targeted murders of vulnerable minorities, the rise of full blown fascism in the Americas, a massive boom in transphobia worldwide and tons of other depressing and terrifying shit, it’s been hard…
Fucking Friends: Why I Need Ethical Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
[CW: this post contains sexually explicit images.] It happened! I FINALLY got to meet my sex blogger bestie, Taylor J Mace, and it was hands down one of the best weekends ever for SO many reasons. I mean, I’ve had some great weekends with other friends too but never any that involved as much casual…
5 Reasons Why Sexting Kicks Ass
Hey folks, know what’s great? Sexting. Seriously, I know it gets a bad rap from your ultra-conservative aunt, Chrissy, but you know what? Too bad for her. There are tons of perks to this criminally underrated pass-time. Here’s 5 of them! 1. It’s Outstanding Foreplay Before my nesting partner, Fal, and I first had…
5 Queer & Trans Inclusive Sex Acts to Enjoy During a Threesome
[CW: a glimpse of girl cock] I don’t know about you but I personally find that almost everything out there written on group sex of any kind is, like, aggressively gendered, cisnormative, and heteronormative. Even when resources try to be as inclusive as they can… they just aren’t. That’s why page after page, search result…