Taking this pic yesterday didn’t quite inspire the threesome sexy times I was hoping it might BUT I did get to share some time in the shower with Kate by massaging her back and soaping up her tits while we kissed; which was amazing and really appreciated, actually.
I’ve been craving those sexy interactions with Kate a lot lately. I mean, she’s fucking hot and sex with her is amazing so of course I want to do it more often! However, our libidos haven’t quite been in synch lately, which is totally valid, so I’m making sure that I appreciate and savor those moments like the one in the shower and enjoying the affection cuddles she needs without projecting sexual expectations onto them.
I think the extra urges are definitely there thanks to a combination of the season change and a huge improvement in my general mental health and wellness these last couple of weeks.
As some of you might recall I recently went through a really rough depression patch, and then October was a fucking gongshow as Fal and I packed up all of our belongings and moved across town. It was LONG overdue tbh, and essential for both of our overall happiness.
Long story short: when Fal and I left Moose Jaw in 2017 to escape daily harassment and ridicule in a really toxic, transphobic community, we kind of jumped at the first apartment we could find at a decent price in downtown Saskatoon. This happened to be a small bachelor in a 100+ year old building with… less than adequate care and maintenance. While we enjoyed the location of our apartment, and its fucking sexy clawfoot bathtub, the building itself was a goddamn nightmare. Over the 2-years we lived there we had to be extensively treated for bed bugs 4 times and felt like prisoners in our own apartment as it became increasingly unsafe to go outside after sundown due to multiple break ins and heavy drug activity.
Now that we’re in our new place, which is a sexy 2-bedroom on the other side of town with an in-suite washer and dryer, dishwasher, balcony, and 600 more square feet of space, I’m FINALLY feeling more myself again! And with that has come a real big increase in my sex drive.
Like, I’m fucking horny, y’all. Really, really, really fucking horny. Luckily Fal has been getting their mojo back too so we’ve had some really excellent sex lately, and I’m getting to have really great feeling snuggles and cuddles with Kate a couple of times a week. Also, I’ve been getting to flirt, sext, and be all sucky with my long distance friend with benefits, Kris, which has been really nice and gives me the swoons.
But I’m selfish as fuck, y’all.
I desire more explicit sexy times! More specifically it’s the group sex that I’m really missing and pining for.
I’m craving more threesomes and/or foursomes with my partners and friends. More fuck sessions trying out different positions with multiple people (like the Eiffel tower and double dip), finding fun ways to incorporate toys and accessories in group sex scenarios, and generally filling my bed with naked people all wanting to get off together. I want to feel two or more pairs of hands all over me while I masturbate, I want to be shoulder to shoulder with people as we’re all playing with ourselves and/or sucking/fucking each other to body convulsing orgasms. I want to get a double blowjob again and be part of giving one for a change! I want sex sessions that requie fucking water breaks only to rev up in excitement and continue on.
Debauchery! I want fucking debauchery!
Speaking of which… we now live real close to Emily and Jacob, our sexy polyam friends who we had that excellent foursome with at the mansion this past summer, and if I’m being completely honest I kinda hope that maybe we can get up to some more non-monogamous group fun here soon too. I mean, sometimes I just REALLY need to suck cock and Jacob’s cock is fucking excellent and delicious and he’s so handsome it hurts. Emily also gives pretty stellar fucking head that I’ve only had the privilege of experiencing once, but I’ve fantasized about it a lot and every time I see her naked at the mansion it takes EVERY ounce of my focus to not just have a constant erection around her.
They’re just two of the sexiest people, y’all. That’s just facts.
Sure, I could just instant message them in the group chat we have going on but I have goddamn sex blog, might as well get a post out of it then, and I know that at least one of them is likely reading this right now so… hi friends! Sup? Wanna have super queer group sex soon?
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I’m glad you’ve managed to move, it sounds like you did the right thing. As for the debauchery…bring it on!
Hears to all these positive changes and their effect on your libido!! Hope you enjoy all the fucking and sucking you can 👄💖
Woot! Thank you! Looking forward to enjoying all of that too <3
Moving sounds like a really good thing. I understand how the place you live can really effect your life. I mainly hate my house and when my daughter goes to uni in 18months time I am definitely moving somewhere else.
As for this “Debauchery! I want fucking debauchery!” Oh I so hear you
Mollyx
It REALLY was! Not just for Fal and I, or my libido, either. Even our cat and guinea pig seem to be doing so, so much better. Our cat especially. She was having a lot of stomach problems, throwing up a lot and was acting more aggressive than usual. But all that has changed and she’s so much calmer and happier now.
I hope those 18 months go by relatively quickly so that you can move to a better place for yourself too! Also, I hope that you too get all the debauchery you desire xoxo
This post made me smile so hard, it’s lovely to read of positive changes in someone’s life that are giving them good feels and then that picture, you look so ready for sexy action and oodles of fun, what a perfect way to end your post 🙂
You’re so right! The positive force of this new home has been felt in every facet of my life and it’s bringing with it really healthy change and growth already. So glad the post made you smile!
And there’s a happy ending because I’ve been chatting with Jacob & Emily a bunch the last couple days, which has been really great.