Like with every other period of personal change, I tend to enter into pretty extensive self-reflective mode for a while after emotional upheaval occurs and a huge part of that often includes thinking about my sexual, emotional, romantic, and relationship needs and wants. In the past that’s led to me contemplating major moves (be it…
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Getting Intimate With My Autistic Ass
I’ve been learning an awful lot about myself over the past few months, reaching all the way back to my youth, and chiefly among these revelations has been that I’m autistic and have ADHD. It honestly explains an awful lot, from my hyper-fixations on new favourite things (be it roller derby through the early 2010s,…
Coping When Multiple Polyamory Breakups Happen
Look, overall polyamory is really great. It allows for unique, enriching, and deeply fulfilling relationships to exist that may not in most traditional ways, and provides one with the opportunity to have their emotional and sexual needs met without putting all of those fulfillment needs on a single person. I love it and it’s honestly…
Birthdays Are Hard and I’m Not Celebrating Mine Next Year
At least not in any formal or traditional way. Birthdays are just really fucking hard, y’all! Over the last few years, every single time July swings around I find myself starting to feel more and more anxious, often verging onto panic, and time has continuously shown it to be for good reason. In 2020, we…
A Whole Damn Vibe
Oh hey? How goes it? That’s cool. Me? Oh, you know. Just hanging out naked with some friends, sipping on wine and munching on some chicken nuggets and fries. My boyfriend, Fenric, took this candid shot of me in my natural element. Vibing while enjoying some social nudism. There’s been a distinct lack of nudism…




