This one’s been on my mind for a long time now, and I can’t quite seem to shake it… I’m AMAB but I wish that I was, and generally feel like I am, AFAB transmasc. That may not make a lot of sense to most. I mean, I’m already AMAB so wouldn’t that be an…
Tag: personal
For Sex Bloggers: Thoughtfully Removing an Ex From Your Blog
One of the things I’ve always said to everyone who has ever appeared on the blog with me, including partners, friends, lovers, and even exes, is that should they ever decide they don’t want to be on here anymore, be that days, weeks, months, or even years from now, I will absolutely 100% respect those…
Exploring New Identities
Like with every other period of personal change, I tend to enter into pretty extensive self-reflective mode for a while after emotional upheaval occurs and a huge part of that often includes thinking about my sexual, emotional, romantic, and relationship needs and wants. In the past that’s led to me contemplating major moves (be it…
Getting Intimate With My Autistic Ass
I’ve been learning an awful lot about myself over the past few months, reaching all the way back to my youth, and chiefly among these revelations has been that I’m autistic and have ADHD. It honestly explains an awful lot, from my hyper-fixations on new favourite things (be it roller derby through the early 2010s,…
Coping When Multiple Polyamory Breakups Happen
Look, overall polyamory is really great. It allows for unique, enriching, and deeply fulfilling relationships to exist that may not in most traditional ways, and provides one with the opportunity to have their emotional and sexual needs met without putting all of those fulfillment needs on a single person. I love it and it’s honestly…




