Some recent events in my personal life, resulting in people being surprised when they find out I’m an angry queer rights advocate, and strangers stepping WAY outta bounds with their messages, have led to me realizing that there are likely LOTS of folks out there who have developed an image of me based off of…
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How I Learned to Let Go of the Hate and Love My Hairy Tits
Once upon at time, I was completely convinced that in order to feel happy, safe, and fulfilled in my life after coming out as queer and trans, I had to strive to pass as a “woman”. Not only that, but I also had to feel uncomfortable with, or outright hate, my body. I mean, if…
The Ups and Downs of Queer Sex Blogging
[CW: post contains nudes] It has taken a lot of big highs and fucking awful lows for me to get this blog to where it is at today. For those who have been following my writing/blogging from back in late 2011 when I started writing about flat track roller derby at Derby Frontier, through the…
Why I Don’t Put a Period After the “Mx” In “Mx Nillin”
Fact: the vast majority of people I have interacted with throughout my life do not respect, or even acknowledge most of the terminology I used to describe myself, or that other non-binary or gender nonconforming people use for themselves either. Also fact: most people will either pointedly, defensively, or aggressively, work to undermine the language…
I’m That Angry Queer
So, it dawned on me recently that I think I’ve been, like, subconsciously going back into the closet… Over the past two months I have been dressing less and less femme, I’ve been very sporadically wearing bras (when I had previously been wearing them every day), I’m not shaving very often (going weeks with stubble),…



